No. Vivo Y81i does not have the front camera flash.
Yes, Vivo Y81i does have a dedicated MicroSD card slot.
No. Vivo Y81i has 2 dedicated slots for sim cards and a dedicated MicroSD card slot. You can use 2 sim cards and a memory card at the same time.
Vivo Y81i has FunTouch OS which is based on Android 8.1.
Yes, Vivo Y81i does have a notch based 6.22-inch display.