No. Oppo F9 does not have the IR sensor.
Yes, Oppo F9 does have the GPS support.
Yes, Oppo F9 does have the OTG support.
No. Oppo F9 does not have the front camera flash but it does have the display screen flash for the front camera.
The most striking feature of the Oppo F9 is the big display with the waterdrop notch. It is well designed, delivers good battery life, and offers decent performance for the price.